Working with Me
Most fathers arrive with one situation that is not shifting and a feeling that nothing they have tried is working. From there we look at what is driving it, understand what the child's biology is actually expecting, and begin to replace what has been missing. There are four ways we can work together, depending on where you are and what you need.
How every programme begins
Every engagement, regardless of which programme you choose, begins with a dedicated session before any formal work starts. This is not an intake form or an administrative step. It is the first piece of real work. We go deep into your specific situation, your child, your home dynamic, and what you are hoping will change. From there we agree together on a precise and observable outcome. This session sets the foundation and the direction for everything that follows.
Tier One
The Foundation Programme
£500 per monthMinimum three months. Individual.
Before We Begin
A dedicated session before the programme starts. We go deep into your specific situation, your child, your home dynamic, and what you are hoping will change. From there we agree together on a clear direction for the work ahead.
This is where most fathers begin. You come with a situation that is not shifting and a feeling that nothing you have tried is working. Over three months of fortnightly conversations I teach you the BAP framework in full. You learn to read what your child's behaviour is actually communicating, understand what their biology is expecting from you, and begin to replace what has been missing. No outcome guarantee at this level, but a full satisfaction promise. If at any point you feel the work is not delivering value, you can stop. Credit applies toward Tier Two if you choose to go further.
Book a conversationTier Two
The Coaching Programme
£5,000Three months. Individual.
Before We Begin
A dedicated session before the programme starts. We go deep into your specific situation, your child, your home dynamic, and what you are hoping will change. From there we agree together on a precise and observable outcome. This session sets the direction for everything that follows.
For fathers who want to move faster and with more support. Like Tier One, this programme teaches the BAP framework in full. You learn to read what your child's behaviour is actually communicating, understand what their biology is expecting from you, and begin to replace what has been missing. The difference is in the depth and pace. Sessions are more frequent, the contact between sessions is greater, and the coaching element means we work actively on applying the framework to your specific situation as it unfolds in real time. At the start we agree together on a specific and observable change at home. If it has not arrived by the end of three months, I stay with you until it does at no extra charge.
Book a conversationTier Three
Just for Parents
£7,500Three months. Both partners together.
Before We Begin
A dedicated session with both partners before the programme starts. We go deep into your specific situation together, understanding each parent's experience, the dynamic between you, and what you are both hoping will change. From there we agree together on a precise and observable outcome.
For parents who recognise that the most effective change happens when both partners are working from the same framework. This programme brings both partners into the work together. It is not relationship counselling and it is not couples therapy. It is parenting alignment. Both parents learn to read the same signals, understand the same biology, and respond from the same place. When two parents are moving in the same direction, the change at home is faster and deeper. Outcome guaranteed. If the agreed result has not arrived by the end of three months, I stay until it does at no extra charge.
Book a conversationTier Four
The Family Legacy Advisory
£25,000First year. Individual.
Before We Begin
A dedicated session before the advisory begins. We go deep into your specific situation, your child, your home dynamic, your working life, and what you are hoping will change. From there we agree together on a precise and observable outcome and the shape of the work ahead.
For fathers who are founders and executives and who have recognised that their professional success and their family life are pulling in opposite directions, and that something has to change. This is a private mentorship relationship. We work together weekly to begin, moving to fortnightly as stability is established. The work goes beyond any single situation. It addresses the deeper patterns that are shaping how you show up at home, how your child experiences you, and what kind of relationship you are building for the long term. Outcome guaranteed. Most relationships continue well beyond the first year because the work earns its place.
Book a conversationAt the start of every Tier Two, Three, and Four engagement, we agree on a specific observable outcome together. If it has not arrived by the end of the initial period, I stay with you until it does, at no extra charge. I have never needed to invoke this. But it matters that it is there.
No obligation. Forty five minutes. We simply talk about what is happening at home and whether there might be a different way of looking at things. You can book a time directly in my calendar below.
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